You met somebody, it feels like magic and you honestly believe he’s the one. Ladies, it is possible to get carried away in the early stages of a relationship and reveal things that the other person is not just ready to handle yet.
There are things that may require more time in a relationship before they can be disclosed and discussed, depending on the maturity of your man, the gravity of the issue, the responsibility it requires, among many other factors that may just differ with the parties involved.
Here are five things you shouldn’t spill too early;
Your Financial Status
Unless, you’re now dating your banker or financial adviser, then ladies don’t be too quick about revealing how much you have or don’t have.
If you’re struggling financially, making this a topic early in your relationship might colour his view about you or make it seem like you’re trying to get him to chip in. The truth is that financial state can indicate a person’s level of stability and wisdom among other things and men consider this too. It is not because they are gold-diggers or materialistic, it is an important part of life.
So you might want to let him get to know you enough to decide that you are more than your financial state.
If you’re doing well or rich, you need to be cautious; that’s just the fact. Establish trust and discern motives before baring all about your money.
However, you should be careful about deliberately keeping it a secret; it may give an impression that you cannot correct and eventually damage the relationship.
Your past does not define you and does not make you any less worthy but you shouldn’t make your past the front-burner of your budding relationship.
That man his past too and though it may not be like yours, talking about your past all the time may eventually drown all the good qualities about you and end the relationship. It may also project you as a insecure and negative person who doesn’t even want to receive love.
For example, When a person doesn’t treat you well enough, telling him that you are an ex-convict, for example, may make him scram not because he’s judging you but because he never considered dating an ex-convict before. When you give such information time, your partner has a better view of you and may love you even with your past.